Yes,yes,i'm well aware that i do not rant about anything other than relationships,but that's only because i have a lot to say on the subject. Or the lack of it thereof. Besides,aren't 70% of life's problems relationship oriented? There,i'm doing my non-existent readers a favor.
See,i haven't had a post up here in a long time because i've been keeping busy butchering a perfectly happy(well,almost) relationship and going on a guilt trip that has lasted far too long. No more,i say.
So i'm back trying to figure out why people would want to willingly get into something that they'll want to get out of after a certain period of time anyway.
Also,what exactly are they getting into? A relationship,i mean. I have a personal belief that the term is jinxed,so i no longer call it that. It serves the dual purpose of lessening the corny quotient. So this thing that two people have (for simplicity's sake,lets not get into a debate over friendship/family etc being relationships as well yada yada and let's just take a boy and a girl because i am young and like 99% of young people who do not have to worry about grave matters of global concern,have trouble with the opposite sex and do not remotely pretend to understand anything more profound than buttered toast) - a 'relationship' - what exactly is it?
For starters,is there a rulebook that one needs to know about and follow? If a boy and a girl mutually like each other and enjoy each others company and have fantastic,off the charts amazing conversations ranging from the usefulness of corduroy pants (life saver) to the origin of defense mechanisms,is it absolutely necessary that they act a certain way or conform to certain set rules that decide who should be loved,how and how much? (Fine,so i've been reading Roy)
Is it the sense of pseudo security that comes out of declaring to the world,or to yourself,that you are 'in a relationship' that keeps a person from questioning it when things start to slip? Does it help in the process of denial or is a public proclamation of commitment simply a step closer to tangibility? Does the tag guarantee absolute loyalty from the two people concerned?
Does it then,also guarantee love?
See,i haven't had a post up here in a long time because i've been keeping busy butchering a perfectly happy(well,almost) relationship and going on a guilt trip that has lasted far too long. No more,i say.
So i'm back trying to figure out why people would want to willingly get into something that they'll want to get out of after a certain period of time anyway.
Also,what exactly are they getting into? A relationship,i mean. I have a personal belief that the term is jinxed,so i no longer call it that. It serves the dual purpose of lessening the corny quotient. So this thing that two people have (for simplicity's sake,lets not get into a debate over friendship/family etc being relationships as well yada yada and let's just take a boy and a girl because i am young and like 99% of young people who do not have to worry about grave matters of global concern,have trouble with the opposite sex and do not remotely pretend to understand anything more profound than buttered toast) - a 'relationship' - what exactly is it?
For starters,is there a rulebook that one needs to know about and follow? If a boy and a girl mutually like each other and enjoy each others company and have fantastic,off the charts amazing conversations ranging from the usefulness of corduroy pants (life saver) to the origin of defense mechanisms,is it absolutely necessary that they act a certain way or conform to certain set rules that decide who should be loved,how and how much? (Fine,so i've been reading Roy)
Is it the sense of pseudo security that comes out of declaring to the world,or to yourself,that you are 'in a relationship' that keeps a person from questioning it when things start to slip? Does it help in the process of denial or is a public proclamation of commitment simply a step closer to tangibility? Does the tag guarantee absolute loyalty from the two people concerned?
Does it then,also guarantee love?
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